Leadership: are you strong, or just a blowhard?
Published: 2010-12-06 There are 11 comments ... please add yours below
Seth Godin has done it again. His blog about Demonstrating Strength* highlights 10 actions fearless leaders can take. Frightened ones present a façade of bravado and noise – but often this hides a deep fear someone might discover their weakness or mistakes. In contrast, courageous leaders are happy to be open and honest – about themselves and what’s happening around them. I particularly like Seth’s list as it includes actions that are part of my Leadership Action Planning approach. It’s hard not to like someone, who seems to agree with you – or am I being fearful there? Anyhow, how would your people rate you on Seth’s items in bold below – which I’ve extended with some further commentary?
- Apologise: As a CEO, I did this once when I realised a major change I’d been pushing was ill-founded. Happily, I discovered it was the change (not me) they hated – and we could then all move forward together. A lesson I’ve never forgotten.
- Defer to others: even as leaders, or particularly as leaders, we can learn from others – whether about technical, market or interpersonal stuff, as per my example above.
- Avoid short cuts: they erode operating standards – and culture. And in such areas, you (as leader) cast a big shadow. Your cut-corner may quickly initiate a damaging trend.
- Tell the truth: this again, is central to culture. If you’re not honest, it will spread like a disease through your team or organisation. The GFC gave us plenty of examples.
- Offer kindness: particularly to those, who need support. As a leader, you must take tough decisions, but there’s room (and need) for both fairness and compassion.
- Seek alliances: and this applies both within your organisation and also with suppliers and customers. A braided rope is always stronger than a single strand of similar size.
- Volunteer to take the short straw: strong leaders aren’t frightened to pick up the tough challenges – dealing with the irate client or tough regulator. It sets an example.
- Choose the long-term, sacrificing the short: this is critical to leadership. Deliveries must be made but the vision must still determine priorities and resource allocations.
- Demonstrate respect for all, not just the strong: otherwise, you’ve lost parts of your team – and possibly key inputs. Why should they commit, if you ignore them?
- Share credit and be public in your gratitude: saying “well done” and “thank-you” – both in private and in public – are undervalued elements of rewarding people.
Many so-called tough leaders would regard the above as nonsense; or, say they already do those things. From my experience, the first response is stupid and the second often a lie. If you want to be strong, it’s about strength of character; not about being brutal, cold or uncaring. As with fitness, it’s more about total health than bulging muscles.
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Dr. Timothy Pascoe AM
PhD (Cambridge), MBA (Harvard), BE & BEc (Adelaide)
Creator, V|E|C|T|O|R Leadership®